Humiliated Wives: A FFM Cuckquean Collection

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Figure out what you both do want to try and also come up with a safe-word that is sexually neutral and cannot be mistaken in the context of sex (i.e. do not use "no" or "stop" but something like "Winter" or "Cashew"). Has she specifically stated that she wants to be verbally humiliated in the bedroom? Or is it more mental or physical? Possibly a combination of them all? Alumni. Rodney and Angela. Channeling hope and healing through music after experiencing God's healing power from the tsunami of infidelity. Michaela (New!) The BDSM mantra is safe, sane, consensual. The second one is the question here - is this something she really wants in a *healthy* fashion?

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You also need to be prepared for emotional and mental risings with this, and how you both want to care for each other afterwards. There needs to be a post-sex (regardless of what you did) care session that ensures you both reenter normal life with a clean slate. This is extremely important because it allows for a bridge to form that keeps the dom/sub dynamic is a safe and healthy zone. It can a sit-down discussion so she can express how she felt about the session, or a reciprocal massage, joint shower, something that clearly ends the sex but continues to show care and love between the two of you. The effects of this 2.5 month affair have been devastating on my self esteem and emotional well being. He was callous, harsh, greedy and selfish. After initially hooking me with lots of sweet talk, something I craved, it stopped. Alumnus. Betrayed. No matter how long it takes or how hard it is, my wife is always worth it! JuliaAlumna. Unfaithful. Sharing hope with others struggling from the shame and destruction of their bad choices. Restoring the broken pieces by the healing power of God’s unfailing love. Vikki He slammed the boat into reverse to stop. Wilma lost her balance, rolled over the bow rail and fell overboard, while trying to reach the cleat. She did spend 8 years in therapy, and she is what she is. She enjoys bondage. She enjoys being degraded, which I indulge with words, on occasion. Sounds like you still have a lot of shame over what you did by how defensive you are of hypothetical haters and seem to place all the blame at your husbands feet. Lots of people feel unappreciated and unloved, but they don’t cheat on their spouse. My husband felt this way about me and cheated on me, after years of me asking him why he was unhappy and if we could get help and do better and receiving no answer in return. I had to walk in on him having sex with another woman to finally get some answers. Now he’s sorry, now he’s willing to change and to see it isn’t all my fault. Yay(sarcasm) When she brought this up I said to her that before we take it further we need to discuss new boundries and such she agrees and we will lay out all ground rules before we do anything.

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Oct 28 NBA Star Rui Hachimura Gets Animated and Possibly Saves the World in New Crayon Shin-chan Episode Alumnus. Unfaithful. Encouraging those walking the road of addiction recovery by sharing his own journey of healing and restoration. Jen I make certain to hold her and tell her how wonderful she is, after sex. Cuddling and kissing long after orgasms seems to work well.The right play wear is good too, such as restraints, leather wear, various nipple clamps, piercings, etc. Alumna. Member, EMS Weekend Retreat Team. Hope and healing are possible for anyone willing to work through the pain. Chase Thank you for posting here. You are absolutely right. Sexual Humiliation hits both sexes as the betrayed party. Me being a man try to write from the male perspective because I won't presume to know how this affects women. Thats why I'm so happy to see you adding the female perspective.

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Just remember you are the one in control. That’s the general idea, anyway. You decide what you think is too much. Emotional affairs coupled with the physical are very hard. I am going through the recovery process now. ALthough I am not sure I am recovered what ever that means. I dont think it would be easier for emotional affairs because he is sharing intimate details with her and bad mouthing you. totally humiliating. I had my husband doing both sexually and Emotionally. Especially when you find the letters that substanciate it He cant deny it. If you and he both want it to work out ....seek God if you are religious. People who go to regular therapists who have these problems, 82% get divorced...just sayingDiscuss what you want to get out of this. Is she wanting humiliation to take her mind off of life? Is she satisfying some long-desired interest? Exploring the root of the submission (and dominance in your own case) will help you both approach and appreciate this from a place of stability. As a few girls told me in the past, I have the ability to bring out the inner Sl*T in women. I will not even list the things I did to women at their request. I am up for anything between consenting adults and trying all sorts of fetish play has made our 46 years of marriage be exciting in and out of the bedroom. I have found that sometimes women want to be treated as you describe to feel that they are being forced or given permission to do the dirty things they want to do but need to feel it is being done as someone other than who they really are. I knew how to make girls feel that they were doing all the nasty things they really wanted to do out of obedience to me and not by their own volition. I am happy to hear you have stopped the affair. Now the recovery and healing can start. I hope and pray you keep working towards recovery and healing. I don’t understand the “self defeating personality” although I have quite a bit of experience with it. My wife is a masochist, and we have been married for 44 years. To me there really is a difference between someone who wants a change to let go occasionally, and have someone else be in charge for a wile, spank them, and "force" them to do things. Thats different form someone who has psychological issues that make them feel that they *deserve* that sort of treatment.

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With that said, if these desires are rooted in an unpleasant past, then counseling should continue. She may get to the point where she no longer desires humiliation. It is important that you are part of the journey to get there. If this is something that she seems to have naturally progressed toward, then to be honest her self-esteem may actually improve with this type of play. She'll feel adored, desired, and liberated through the humiliation, and it might give her a sense of newfound confidence in herself not only sexually but also personally. Unfortunately a lot of the males out there looking for affairs with married women are predators (as you found out). It takes a real scumbag to hit on a married woman. Alumnus. Unfaithful. Living life differently, enjoying my wife and family, and grateful for God’s love. CarlieAlumna. Betrayed. Sharing her testimony of God's miraculous healing from betrayal trauma to inspire hope in others. Nicole I am a very alpha male and as a consequence, sexually submissive women were drawn to me. To me it is all a sex game, not a reflection of who the person is outside of the bedroom. I enjoy being sexually submissive to women at times and the funny part is that outside of bed, they are submissive to me. It is simply role playing by most and a psychological issue for a few.